ELLEN DEGENERES

There is something about Ellen DeGeneres -- a glow?



The moment she appears you like her; the moment she opens her mouth, you like her.

What is it? Is it the way she relates to everything that you see around her -- be it a chair, pillow, glass, or the hoots, the applause from her audience, and the guests entering? It's never the same but I feel -- yes, feel -- Ellen reacting to whatever she's seeing.

Why do I invariably -- even when I briefly glimpse her as I'm tuning to the news -- pause and watch her, hear what she's saying?

Okay, I've wondered if this indefinable something has to do with her coming-out as a lesbian. Back in 1997, when she was in the television series, "Ellen," she came-out on "The Oprah Winfrey Show" -- told the world "I am a lesbian," just after an episode in which her character in the television sitcom came-out to a therapist played by Winfrey. 

It was a big WOW. In those days, it could have caused her to be dropped from the show, or caused DeGeneres to fade as a popular TV personality. It didn't. Her series went on to explore more lesbian things. And since those days, Ellen DeGeneres has received more than a dozen Emmys and many other awards for her television work, and her support of many lesbian and gay issues

But that is NOT why I'm writing about her.

You can Google her, and be amazed at the number of shows, films, important events she's hosted, and performed in, but that indefinable something about her -- perhaps it really is a glow -- her eyes, smile, posture, the way she moves, the way she phrases a sentence -- makes you feel you know her. And whether or not what she says, spur-of-the-moment, is funny, or even seriously serious, it always seems as if what Ellen says is right, the right thing to say.
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Maybe it's Ellen DeGeneres's background? Born and raised in Louisiana; a Christian Scientist till she was age 13; Mom a speech therapist, Dad a insurance agent; parents divorced. Ellen moved with Mom to Texas; graduated high school; briefly attended the University of New Orleans where she briefly studied communication; worked as clerk, saleslady, waitress, house painter, hostess, bartender -- used all of that as material when she was doing comedy at coffee houses and small clubs, inspired by Woody Allen and Steve Martin. She toured nationally, starred on TV's "Newhart" and "Carson," and was the first comedienne on Carson's show to be asked to sit down and chat with him.

On goes this good luck story, but it wasn't just luck -- there was, and is, that something -- that glow -- since 80's and 90's, one job breeding the next and the next. And since 2000, busier, more famous than ever, the 55-year-old Ellen is glowing more than ever.

I can't compare her to anyone else. I can't evaluate Ellen DeGeneres as an actress; or performer, or famous woman, or a starry star.

Why? Because there's no one like her.  She's somehow become an American personality with whom you want to visit, like our Statue of liberty -- she's OUR Ellen.

EEK --THOSE MONSTER FILMS

Visions for kids who will grow up to be the vision creators for your kids' kids, and their children.

Have you seen Up, Toy Story 2, Toy Story 3, Monsters Inc., Tangled, The Incredibles,  Chicken Little, Ice Age 1, 2, 3, Shrek2 & 3 & 4? Or  Finding Nemo, Cars & Cars 2, Horton Hears a Who, Despicable  Me, How to Train Your Dragon? What about The Ant Bully, Antz, Meet the Robinsons, Bee  Movie? Surely you've  seen Kung Fu Panda, Madagascar  and ... on, on and on goes the list.

I wrote about Shrek. He reminds me of nasal sprays -- the repulsive congregation of Mucinex cold germs ho-ho-ing, cavorting, proudly beating their chests,

Just the other day I blinked, gulped, laughed, and cringed at the fabulously awful monsters in "Monsters University." I know kids and their parents love them -- parents are probably proud of their kid's delight in most of the ugly e jokes -- it shows that their offspring are smart, sharp and very possibly on their way to being winners when they get out in the world and take over running the country.

Oh no!  Oh yes -- these kids will go on to become another generation of artists like the brilliantly creative artists who create blockbuster films for Pixar, Disney, and DreamWorks. And the kids will become even more expert with toilet humor, farts, curses, crude "up yours," and down-playing, of tenderness, love, respect kindness, innocence... and, and ...

I can't help remember Olive Beaupre Miller's books,  that my oldest sister had in her attic room.



Six precious books ...

I could only "read"  on special occasions when my sister was present, making sure I wasn't going to  wrinkle or dog-ear any pages. 

The pages, and pages of illustrations  filled my mind ... still fill my mind -- kings, queens. princesses, beggars, witches, goblins, animals, bats, birds, lions, forests, mountains, skies, castles, so many wondrous visions ...

Oh sure, I looked at comics  -- liked the "Dragon Lady," "Smiling Jack," and "Little Orphan Annie," but when I draw, or write, in my mind I see those illustrations ... that castle.

I climbed, and climb and search, and keep finding more marvelous doors and windows in that castle ...

Hey some of the things in those super popular, nifty-jazzy Disney, Pixar, DreamWorks flicks are incredibly fantastic, truly funny, mind boggling,  amazing.

After you take a look and fall in love with this hippy-dippy furball monster, please -- please find a way to  show the kids the castle.

(VIDEO) LIKE FATHER. LIKE SON

"Have you become more like your father?" Em wants to know.

John describes his father, and explains that he finds himself taking on more of his father's characteristics instinctively. 

Em wondering if it's a fact of life -- "If we had a daughter, I guess she'd  become more like me, or rebel and become completely opposite?" . 


That John has become more conservative and more of a stickler, very much now, like his father was, is what the John and Em observe .

Cullums see it happening to their son, actor JD, too.



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VANESSA REDGRAVE

She is a queen -- a ruler of the theater world where I live. What she does, or doesn't do, what she says, how she behaves, what roles she chooses to play -- all that affects me.

She's an older and wiser famous lady -- not a has been, but a "once-waser." Everyone used to know her name. Now, I don't think they do.

I'll always remember her as the beautiful Guinevere with Richard Harris in the film,  "Camelot;" as Isadora in the film about the iconoclastic modern dance pioneer, in which Vanessa danced as if she were a real dancer -- and as the liberated, liberal "Julia."

Oh my, there were a lot of protests when she played a Jewish Singer at Auschwitz, in "Playing for Time," -- Zionists hated her for her outspoken support of the Palestinians -- the Jewish Defense League picketed the awards ceremony when she was nominated for an Oscar for her role in "Julia." Even so, there were many more unforgettable roles she played for which she won awards and nominations. She is the only British actress ever to win the Oscar, Emmy,  Tony, Cannes, Golden Globe and the Screen Actors Guild awards. She has also garnered many headlines about her marriage to director Tony Richardson, their two children, and the son she had with actor Franco Nero.

I can't compare Vanessa to anyone else I have focused on because of their artistic excellence because she is ... something else. I am searching for words -- she walks alone; a spotlight on her; on the moment at the moment.

Whether you approved of her activism, her blunt blatant support of things you thought were wrong, or not -- her money was where her mouth was. It still is. She never catered to us, trying to win our approval. She IS what she is -- the epitome of what she is doing as an actress and where she's standing now.

Nowadays, Vanessa Redgrave grows larger and opens her heart, her arms wider and embraces more of whatever it is.